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When Should You Communicate from the Heart?
TheMsEngineerWay.com When to Communicate from the Heart We’ve learned that effective communication should come from the heart, and I...

Amy Castro
Dec 14, 20163 min read


Here’s the Best Life Lesson I Ever Learned. . . From a Shelter Dog
I just couldn’t leave Zuzu at the facility as I felt she needed some real TLC, so much to my family’s dismay, I brought her home. From...

Amy Castro
Dec 12, 20161 min read


Tips for Writing Holiday Letters People Will Actually Enjoy Receiving
Several years ago, I mentioned to a friend that I couldn’t stand receiving SOME holiday letters because of the things people write in...

Amy Castro
Dec 7, 20164 min read


Encouragement: the Best Gift You Can Give This Holiday Season
I’m a critic. There, I said it. I’m critical of myself and critical of others (although I don’t usually VOICE my criticism of others to...

Amy Castro
Dec 5, 20161 min read


Advice for Coping with the Holidaze
The holidays should be a time of joy, gratitude, and togetherness. However, for some, it’s a time of stress, family drama, and poor...

Amy Castro
Nov 30, 20161 min read
Do You Have Unfinished Business In 2016?
As we head into the last month of 2016, I was thinking about the things I had on my "to do" list for this year that I've still not...

Amy Castro
Nov 28, 20161 min read


9 Conversations You Should Never Start at Family Holiday Gatherings
This week, I’m combining my regular “Monday Motivation for Performance Communicators,” with my blog because with Thanksgiving just a few...

Amy Castro
Nov 20, 20163 min read


Just Say No: 5 Ways to Make It Easier When It’s the Last Thing You Want to Do
For many of us, it’s the first word we learn, thus the popularity of baby T-shirts that read, “My name is No No” on the front. We learn...

Amy Castro
Nov 16, 20163 min read
Clean Up Your Act
Last weekend I spent time with some of my NSA colleagues at beautiful High Point University in High Point, North Carolina. If you've...

Amy Castro
Nov 14, 20162 min read


Meeting One of the Most Powerful Men in the World
Customer service is one of the most important aspects of any successful business and I write about it a lot. This week, I wanted to share...

Amy Castro
Nov 9, 20163 min read
Asking this one question will make you more productive.
“Couldn’t you be doing something more productive with your time?” This is one of my favorite sayings. It is such a mantra around my...

Amy Castro
Nov 7, 20161 min read


Six Guaranteed Ways to Become More Approachable
NOT APPROACHABLE! It may as well be written on the person’s forehead. First, there’s the lack of acknowledgement when you approach. Then,...

Amy Castro
Nov 2, 20163 min read
Talk Less, Listen More
Pretty soon after we're born, our parents start encouraging us to talk. "Say mama," or "Say dada," they cajole, beg and bribe us to...

Amy Castro
Oct 31, 20162 min read
Do You Suffer from "Pumpkin Without Stem" Syndrome?
Back East where I'm from, it's a fall tradition for many families to take an afternoon trip to a local farm to pick out Halloween...

Amy Castro
Oct 26, 20163 min read


Eliminate SHOULD From Your Vocabularly
There are a lot of things we know we SHOULD do- exercise more, be kinder to people, eat healthier, get a jump start on that project....

Amy Castro
Oct 24, 20161 min read


Stop Kissing Frogs and Start Hiring Right with Behavioral Interview Questions
Sharon Maaz, president of the Association of Business and Professional Women, wondered the same thing. In this week’s VLOG post, I answer...

Amy Castro
Oct 20, 20163 min read


Ask For Help, Offer Help
It’s Sunday afternoon and my husband has just fallen off a ladder, out of a tree, and onto the ground. It all started when he went out to...

Amy Castro
Oct 17, 20162 min read


Conflict Resolution Achieved: With Just Three Simple Questions
This week’s blog post is a guest post about conflict resolution by Rob Pennington, Ph.D. Dr. Rob is an educational psychologist who...

Amy Castro
Oct 12, 20164 min read


Stop letting people push your buttons!
Many of us walk through life thinking other people push our buttons. That guy who cuts us off on the freeway makes us mad. The woman who...

Amy Castro
Oct 10, 20162 min read


In A Negative World, Why Not Try Communicating Positively?
One day, when my daughter was in college, she called me in a panic because that afternoon she was going to be giving her first campus...

Amy Castro
Oct 6, 20163 min read
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