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The High Cost of Poor Listening Skills
More than five million tourists visit the island each year, enjoying its distinctly beautiful beaches, mountains, and many cultural...

Amy Castro
Jan 18, 20172 min read


When Should You Communicate from the Heart?
TheMsEngineerWay.com When to Communicate from the Heart We’ve learned that effective communication should come from the heart, and I...

Amy Castro
Dec 14, 20163 min read


9 Conversations You Should Never Start at Family Holiday Gatherings
This week, I’m combining my regular “Monday Motivation for Performance Communicators,” with my blog because with Thanksgiving just a few...

Amy Castro
Nov 20, 20163 min read


Eliminate SHOULD From Your Vocabularly
There are a lot of things we know we SHOULD do- exercise more, be kinder to people, eat healthier, get a jump start on that project....

Amy Castro
Oct 24, 20161 min read


Stop letting people push your buttons!
Many of us walk through life thinking other people push our buttons. That guy who cuts us off on the freeway makes us mad. The woman who...

Amy Castro
Oct 10, 20162 min read


In A Negative World, Why Not Try Communicating Positively?
One day, when my daughter was in college, she called me in a panic because that afternoon she was going to be giving her first campus...

Amy Castro
Oct 6, 20163 min read


Are you closing the communication loop?
Whether it’s listening talking to someone and assuming that because they say, “uh huh,” that they understand or sending an email and...

Amy Castro
Oct 3, 20161 min read


Five Ways to Stop a Conversation Dominator
There are a couple of ways to deal with the people in your life who are CDs, and none of them involve taking a pill. The method you...

Amy Castro
Sep 27, 20164 min read


Here’s My Advice for Responding to Unsolicited Advice
When my brother and I were teenagers, we used to fight . . . a lot! I’ll admit that most of our fights were ones that I started and were...

Amy Castro
Sep 21, 20164 min read


Can you say it in a nicer way?
I’m five days into my trip to England and other than the obvious differences, such as their very fine British accent and the fact that...

Amy Castro
Sep 19, 20161 min read


6 Tips for Harnessing the Power of Nonverbal Communication
First, it is our primary mode of communication. Before you could speak, you “communicated” how you felt using body language, tone,...

Amy Castro
Sep 14, 20164 min read


Are You Furious or Upset? Hurt or Angry?
How often do we take the time to really think about the words we choose to express ourselves? In most instances, we use the first word or...

Amy Castro
Sep 5, 20162 min read
Is your communication harming those around you?
This weekend I saw a news piece about a video that’s gone viral on YouTube. “Every Opportunity,” published by the Atlanta Speech School,...

Amy Castro
Aug 28, 20162 min read


6 Tips for Surviving the End of the “Honeymoon Period”- at Work, at Home, or With Your D
Tinkerbell was a quiet, shy, but very friendly little dog. She loved to sit in my lap and be held for hours on end. She only weighed 5...

Amy Castro
Aug 24, 20165 min read
Are you breaking the 25/5 rule?
The 25/5 rule is simple. It has two parts: 1. Don’t say something in 25 words when 5 will do. 2. Don’t use a 25-cent word when a 5-cent...

Amy Castro
Aug 22, 20161 min read


9 Tips for Establishing a Great Relationship with Your Child’s Teacher
Every year around this time I post communication tips for talking with your child’s teacher. However, these tips are about more than...

Amy Castro
Aug 17, 20165 min read


8 Tips for Controlling Stage Fright
Regardless of the reason, people always ask me how they can eliminate stage fright. My response? “Why would you want to?” In my...

Amy Castro
Aug 10, 20163 min read


Dealing with Difficult People is All About Choices
Let’s face it, every one of us can be difficult at one time or another. Additionally, even the word “difficult” is a perception....

Amy Castro
Aug 3, 20164 min read


It’s Time to Say “YES”
I’ve written many articles and blog posts about when and how to say, “no.” I even have a chapter in my book, Practical Communication, on...

Amy Castro
Aug 1, 20162 min read


Is This All You Need?
I wrote my first blog post on May 31, 2011. The title of the post was “What Everyone Ought to Know About Communicating Successfully.” In...

Amy Castro
Jul 27, 20162 min read
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